On Racial Profiling, Pallor Shock, Performative Actions, and Saying the Not-So-Quiet Parts Out Loud

So, y'all's Supreme Court went ahead and legalized racial profiling, finally making sure the not-so-quiet part was out there loud and proud. And while many Black and Brown folx are now mulling over a new, now legal addition to the list of things you evidently can't do while Black or Brown, I'm seeing the usual wave of shocked people of pallor grappling with the notion that it's OK to pull Black and Brown folx over based on their perceived appearance.

"I can't believe this is happening."

"The rule of law is gone."

"We're all in danger."

"I'm not going to stand for this."

"We need to stand up together and fight."

So...you're shocked. About racial profiling. In 2025. And now you want to fight the system because it's "gone too far."

Oh, bless your "militant" lil' hearts of pallor.

Y'all are truly exhausting.

Yes, it's scary as hell that the country that has been profiling Black and Brown people for hundreds of years suddenly got the "right" people of pallor in place to make it the law of the land. It's pretty horrific, actually. I'm even more scared for my Black and Brown brethren than I've ever been. But you know what? I live in the United States.

I'VE ALWAYS BEEN SCARED FOR MY BLACK AND BROWN BRETHREN.

C'mon, y'all. Did people of pallor forget about all the murders of thousands of Black and Brown folx at the hands of law enforcement with no cause? The video footage, the failed verdicts, the lack of justice? Like, did y'all forget about Stop and Frisk? Where was all this outrage then, huh? Where were y'all at then?

Oh, I get it. You think YOU'RE in danger now because it's officially the law of the land, so it's relevant to you now.

That's on brand.

Even in the face of y'all callin' yourselves standing up for Black and Brown lives you find a way to make it about yourself while pulling out your virtue signal so your fellow people of pallor will see you as one of the good ones.

Don't worry: you're "safe." They won't mistake you for me or anyone else with melanin, even if your spray tan and collagen lips got you out here looking like a sentient fruit leather that, if you squint out of one eye and cover the other, could be mistaken as a person of color by a racist cop.

Save your shock and outrage for fuel to actually do something other than write a long post or post a video on social media about a reality you've failed to acknowledge until it made you squirmy in your tum-tum.

[Image description: A plate of dark red fruit leathers. They are bumpy in texture and shiny in appearance.]

Image description: A plate of dark red fruit leathers. They are bumpy in texture and shiny in appearance.

This Week's Opening Thought: September 8, 2025

This week's opening thought: Y'all's president spent his weekend openly declaring war on multicultural cities in the United States that he has a personal issue with under the guise of "combatting crime." He's done it in D.C. and now he's declaring war on other cities to the point that he happily posted an AI image of himself referencing the film "Apocalypse Now" about his impending unfounded miltary occupation of Chicago, and a "fun" lil' sentence stating that "Chicago is about to find out why it's called the Department of War" with a couple of helicopter emojis for good measure.

You know, "presidential behavior."

And let us not forget that y'all's president is moving to take unfounded military action in Chicago based on false narratives that his voters have been eatin' up with a spoon about it being, and I quote, "the most dangerous place in the world." Actual data and statistics state otherwise but, you know, the president told y'all to eat it up so eat up!

Meanwhile, members of that same enthusiastic flock of voters filled up multiple town halls across the United States over the past four days, begging for relief as their president destroys their livelihoods with trade wars built upon false narratives that many of them happily gobbled up without even thinking about how anything he said to them worked. And many of those folx?

They live in regions of the United States with the most poverty and highest crime rates.

And now their farms and businesses will likely not make it to next summer, as all of their usual trade partners from other countries have moved on because their president-elect made any negotiations evaporate.

The most ridiculous part of it all is these loyalists, even as they are destroyed at the hands of their beloved dictator, still think everything going on and everything their president is pushing for is OK, because their president is gonna "own the libs" and "make this country great again" while he's also owning them on multiple levels. They still think that they are going to come out of this unscathed, even as their bodies are dragged through thorns and brambles. They somehow think that their loyalty will yield dividends and they'll somehow be spared of the wrath of ignorant policies and executive orders because they voted for him. Most of their cities will likely be occupied with a military presence at some point as their president normalizes oppressing the citizenry "for their own good." Their healthcare options will cease to exist, and their elected officials will ghost them and ignore them. And yet, after all of that, they will continue to cling on to their choices and ultimately cease to exist themselves. But it'll be "their America again," right?

Man, being a white supremacist bigot comes with quite the heavy price tag.

Too bad we've all gotta pay the price when a lot of us ain't even purchase anything and a whole chunk of folx aren't even willing to split the bill or get a separate check.

This Week's Opening Thought: September 2, 2025

This week’s opening thought: If you’ve lived a life of unearned privilege and white privilege where you have gone out of your way to endanger others, especially vulnerable and mistreated folx, and have ultimately harmed and impacted so many people and communities over your years on this planet that millions of people are anxiously waiting for you to pass away so they can celebrate your demise like it’s Mardi Gras or Carnival?

Well, I’m no expert on what benchmarks or actions someone should undertake to have their legacy viewed as one that people would consider as living a good life, but I know enough to say that if people are giddy about you possibly being sick and dying because you have spent a significant portion of your life using your privilege to be a clear, present, and hate-filled danger to their lives and the lives of those they care about, then you probably haven’t lived a good life.

But again, I’m no expert.

I just know a few things.

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On The Benefits of Working Remote vs. Onsite While Black

Image description: a picture of R&B musician Carl Thomas. He leans back in his car, his face exasperated. The image is captioned, “Me when I see that one person of pallor who always wants to ‘chat’ with a melanated person about their most recent racist and white supremacist behavior happily entering my office without permission to force a nonconsensual conversation, dumping a bunch of hateful crap in my lap and forcing me to chose between ‘educating’ them or putting my continued employment at risk by checkin’ them.”

One of the most significant benefits I’ve received from transitioning to remote roles is not having to spend my time in an office where people of pallor can force their way into my personal office space any time they see fit and initiate nonconsensual conversations around how racist, oppressive, and harmful they are.

I have had countless unwanted conversations with “well-meaning” people of pallor in workplaces over the years, around how racist and messed up they are. Every in-person job I’ve had for over a decade has had people of pallor forcing me to be their constant sounding board and “teacher.” It’s draining. It’s oppression and abuse masquerading as curiosity and a willingness to learn when all they want is validation for their actions.

Now, some of y’all are probably like, “Why didn’t you have boundaries?”, which is a question that shows how privileged your life has been not to have
to worry about how having boundaries in the workplace unlocks a whole closet of stereotypes and white supremacist workplace-isms that ultimately threaten your ongoing employment prospects.

Boundaries? Oh, you silly lil’ privileged beavers. Of course, I had boundaries in those workplaces.

The thing is, the clearer I was with my boundaries - signage on my office door that made it clear that I was busy, being available by appointment only, asking people to leave and re-enter my office, stating that I was not willing to consent to a racism “chat”, and even making it clear that people had to knock and be invited in before entering - the more “well-meaning” people of pallor would report me to my supervisor. I cannot tell you how many times I’ve had to chat with leadership about how I’m not being a “team player,” that my boundaries were somehow in conflict with my job duties (they never were), or that I was the one being harmful to others because I didn’t want to be a racism and bigotry sounding board.

It has always been clear to me that working while Black comes with white supremacy, expecting you to shrink yourself and be used and mistreated as some form of servitude and gratitude to maintain a paycheck. And because I know this? I don’t think I can work in a physical office doing full-time work and feel healthy doing it ever again.

Working remotely has been a blessing for my mental and emotional health, and I don’t believe in letting blessings pass me by.

It’s also saved me from catchin’ a case, so win-win.

[Image description: a picture of R&B musician Carl Thomas. He leans back in his car, his face exasperated. The image is captioned, “Me when I see that one person of pallor who always wants to ‘chat’ with a melanated person about their most recent racist and white supremacist behavior happily entering my office without permission to force a nonconsensual conversation, dumping a bunch of hateful crap in my lap and forcing me to chose between ‘educating’ them or putting my continued employment at risk by checkin’ them.”]

On a Logo With a White Man and a Barrel, a.k.a. "The Country is on Fire, But The Most Important Thing in My Life is This Cracker Barrel Logo"

This week’s example of how fragile whiteness is...

"Cracker Barrel announced Aug. 26 that it is dropping its much-criticized new logo and returning to the 'Old Timer.'

"We thank our guests for sharing your voices and love for Cracker Barrel. We said we would listen, and we have," the company wrote in a statement provided to USA TODAY. “Our new logo is going away, and our 'Old Timer' will remain."

The nationwide restaurant chain and country store, known for its comfort food and nostalgic atmosphere, unveiled a new, simplified logo with the launch of its fall menu campaign on August 19.

The "enhanced brand look" was intended to modernize the company’s brand, executives said. The intent includes moving its restaurants away from nostalgia-rich decor to something more contemporary and less cluttered.

The change drew sharp criticism from customers and politicians, with both President Donald Trump and the Democratic Party decrying the change.

"All of your fans very much appreciate it," Trump said in a post on Truth Social following the announcement. "Make lots of money and, most importantly, make your customers happy again!"

USA TODAY followed up with Cracker Barrel, asking if Trump’s comments had influenced its decision, and did not receive an immediate response."

A logo.

Y'all went apesh-- over them removing an old man of pallor and a barrel from a logo.

Y'all's president is literally trying to be a dictator by Christmas, yet y'all lost your minds over a person of pallor being removed from the logo of a restaurant chain that has always had big white supremacist Klan energy.

Good to know what really matters to U.S. Americans of pallor.